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Interventions- Consequences

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LIMITATIONS: Interventions may not be successful. All individuals must be on the same page in agreeing that treatment is required. The individuals must convey their message in a non-judgmental, non-punitive manner. This may be difficult if underlying anger and resentment is present. A seed may be planted even if they don't seize this opportunity.

We cannot predict what message will be heard and who the messenger will be.

o The family & friends may no longer care what happens to the person.

o They are too angry and punitive.

o They fear the anger or reaction of the addict or alcoholic.

o They are in their own denial in regards to the problem.

o Other family members and friends may be chemically dependent and are not wanting to face their own issues with substances. (Hypocritical)

o Cutoff and distance may prevent action from occurring. (Geographic's)

o Family system is well entrenched and it also fears change.

 Intervention family and Friends

INTERVENTION PRINCIPLES

o The person has a disease that is causing significant damage in his or her life.

o Denial is part of the disease that prevents the person from fully appreciating the damage.

o The person is unlikely to seek help on their own.

o The people that surround the person can change the environment by destroying the enabling system and making it more likely that they will seek help.

o One of the most important factors influencing the person to seek help is the sense of love and concern conveyed by those involved in the intervention.

o Anger and punitive measures have no place in an intervention, and will only serve to increase the person's defenses and make it less likely that they will receive help.

o Consequences for not going to treatment should not be designed to punish the addict. They should consider the health and well being of all involved.

o Individuals that require and intervention are in a great deal of denial and need intensive treatment. (Minimum 28 days - 65 days)

o It is useful to intervene even if the person does not go to treatment. Many secondary goals can be accomplished including planting a seed for future help or beginning a rigorous outpatient recovery program.

o Family and friends don't have to suffer in silence and doubt their intuition.

  intervention not confruntation or punishment

"Intervention is not a "confrontation" but a well organized expression of genuine concern for a person that is sick with a chronic illness."

Comments

The first I ever heard of 'Interventions' was from a show I used to watch in America called The Interventionist. At the time I was activally drinking, and had a resentment that no one cared enough to arrange one for me. 
 
 
 
I do agree, that even if the person that is sick, does not take up treatment, at least the seed has been sown. Simular, when I was told to attend my first 12 step meeting just to please my then girl friend.  
 
 
 
Thank you, great blog. 
 
 
 
David.
Posted @ Tuesday, September 13, 2011 9:22 by David Keene
Intervening takes a lot of courage and faith, and it may or may not work, but it is the best act of love a family member can give. Thanks for the reminders, as this is an ongoing act.
Posted @ Tuesday, September 13, 2011 9:48 by happymom
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